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Mismatched Desire (and How to Understand It): Insights from a Sex Therapist

Mismatched sexual desire—when one partner wants sex more often than the other—is one of the most common issues couples face. But it doesn’t mean something is wrong with you or your relationship. In this post, Licensed Therapist Raquel Perez, LPC of Intima Couples and Sex Therapy explains why differences in libido happen, how emotional safety and stress affect desire, and what couples can do to reconnect with compassion and understanding. You’ll learn how to move beyond blame, communicate with curiosity, and rebuild intimacy in a way that feels safe, grounded, and real.

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Your Desire Is Your Truth: A Guided Therapy Meditation

Desire is not something you have to perform or prove—it is a truth that lives within you. Whether it feels vibrant, quiet, or far away, your experience of desire is valid. In this guided therapy meditation, Your Desire Is Your Truth, you’ll be invited to slow down, release judgment, and create a safe inner space where every part of you belongs. This practice is designed to help you reconnect with your body, soften shame, and honor yourself exactly as you are.

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Growing Up Latina and Learning to Talk About Sex

Growing up Latina in a religious, conservative home, sex was not just unspoken—it was forbidden. The silence shaped my identity, fueling shame, confusion, and decades of disconnection from my body and desires. In this post, I share my personal story of healing, how shame impacts sexuality, and gentle tools to help you reclaim your voice, your pleasure, and your truth.

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Therapist Talks About Depression: My Story, My Healing, and the Power of Support

When a therapist talks about depression, you might expect clinical insight—but I want to share something more personal. Before I became a licensed therapist, I was a 22-year-old single mom in the depths of depression, barely making it through the day. This post is about that season of my life, what helped me begin to heal, and the three things that still ground me today: acceptance, grace, and support. Whether you're in the fog yourself or supporting someone who is, my hope is that this story helps you feel less alone—and reminds you that healing is possible, even in the darkest moments.

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How Therapy and Self-Reflection Help You Heal Trauma and Grow Emotionally

Struggling with emotional healing, trauma recovery, or feeling stuck in self-awareness? In this post, therapist Raquel Perez, LPC, explores why self-reflection and therapy are essential to healing childhood trauma, overcoming emotional blocks, and growing into your most authentic self. Learn how to move from insight to action with a powerful therapy-informed tool: Feel It, Name It, Release It. Whether you’re navigating depression, anxiety, or relationship wounds, this guide offers a safe and empowering path forward. Based in Lakewood, Colorado, Raquel offers trauma-informed therapy both in-person and online across Colorado.

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Therapy Meditation for Growth and Healing: Unleashing Your Quiet Greatness

This guided therapy meditation invites you to reconnect with the quiet, powerful shifts that have shaped your healing journey. Whether you're navigating anxiety, depression, relationship stress, or personal growth, this practice helps you honor the small yet profound moments of transformation. Join licensed therapist Raquel Perez in embracing your inner strength, one breath at a time.

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