Mismatched sexual desire—when one partner wants sex more often than the other—is one of the most common issues couples face. But it doesn’t mean something is wrong with you or your relationship. In this post, Licensed Therapist Raquel Perez, LPC of Intima Couples and Sex Therapy explains why differences in libido happen, how emotional safety and stress affect desire, and what couples can do to reconnect with compassion and understanding. You’ll learn how to move beyond blame, communicate with curiosity, and rebuild intimacy in a way that feels safe, grounded, and real.